There have been countless times lately that after she shared her stories, I framed my empathetic speculation which perfectly described how she was feeling, only to realize those words would describe me just as accurately. Though remotely a fresh thing to know, I'd actually almost forgotten how close we're in terms of life philosophy, values and attitude— so close that it once got a bit boring to chat— ever since I left Madison three years ago and she remained there.
2015年5月28日星期四
Polyamory
I remember I mentioned my soulmate in the States to you. I told you about her polyamorous relationship with her partner-- deep intimate life connection, yet with sexual freedom. With the condition of transparent honest communication. It might be tricky, but they'd been perfectly executing it.
You were amazed. And you asked why I have so many friends of such (eccentric kind). I smiled; I am lucky. "But it could also be the law of attraction: the likes attract," I said.
What I didn't say out explicitly was that, her ideal was mine too. I'm actually open to polyamory, if not actively seeking for it.
It's not like I need the sexual freedom. Quite the opposite; I'm afraid I'm more on the platonic side. I just want to honor every individual's deepest harmless desires (if any), and co-exist with them so they don't come in the way of the precious spiritual and sexual connections I develop with someone, which doesn't come by often... rare, in fact.
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